Hitting the Wall

by Sharon Hoover 3/13/2009 11:06:00 AM

Today I hit the wall! It brought on a level of overwhelm I don't often feel. It had its way with me and I didn't much like it.

I'm launching my business into a bigger presence on the internet and I'm not of the generation that has cut it's teeth on this stuff. I know the jargon (well, some of it) and I've always thought of myself as a quick study. That's not my experience with this project, however. It's slow, confusing, frustrating. You can see where this is going - right to the core of my self image. The internal dialogue (mindtalk) was in full swing: "You can't learn this stuff. It's all gotten beyond you. You'll never catch up. It's hopeless. You're hopeless." Egads! As I considered each of those difficult self-judgments, I knew they are all false. What was true is that I have found myself . . . no, I have put myself on the threshold of setting up two blogs, three social networking sites, an offer of a free special report "Say No Without Guilt" and writing an ebook. The technology for each piece as well as how it all fits together is beyond my knowledge base and experience.

No longer am I hanging out in overwhelm. Since I don't like it much, I spend as little of my precious life energy there as possible. After getting rid of my self-defeating internal chatter, my strategy was to bring my focus to what is most important and to create a cohesive big picture into which all these parts could fit. Once my purpose - to inspire, encourage and inform - was clear in my mind, I could see where I needed information and guidance. My coach led me to see how each part linked (literally and figuratively) into another and the "wall" actually became a door. I could see my way forward.

When you hit the wall, and overwhelm is having its way with you, what is your best strategy? Please share your comments by clicking on the "comments" button below.

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3/31/2009 1:35:02 AM

Isn't it amazing what can happen in our lives when we simply tell the truth - what we feel and what is challenging us? Everyone can relate and it serves to connect us rather than separate us.

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Sharon Hoover’s blog provides practical ways for advisors to transform their leadership skills. By focusing on how you can create a culture of empowerment, respect and integrity in your firm and with your clients, you connect with your passion for work and life. As a coach to leading financial advisors, Sharon is an expert on how you can manage your firm better and create balance in your life.

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Sharon HooverSharon A. Hoover, PCC, M.A.
Owner of CoachingWorks

Since 1996, Sharon has coached financial advisors and other small business owners. She combines her own insightful techniques with concepts of the most current thinkers in the field of leadership. Sharon is a graduate of Coach University and has been certified by the International Coach Federation since 1998. She coaches advisors coast-to-coast and facilitates inspirational and productive staff retreats that lead to transformational shifts. Sharon has presented for the Financial Planning Association’s local chapter and Retreat, as well as the Knoxville Estate Planners Association.

Sharon knows leadership from the inside out. In 1985, she established the local center for an international nonprofit foundation that focuses on personal development, chaired the local board and served in international roles. She is a founding member of the East Tennessee Coaches Association and served in formal and informal leadership since its inception in 2001. She chairs the Small Business Committee for the Knoxville Chamber and the Board of the Race Relations Center of East Tennessee. Sharon is also an active member of the Rotary Club of Knoxville. She lives on a farm with her husband, John, a psychologist, whom she married in 1962. They have two adult daughters, Karin and Elizabeth.

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