When Being "Responsible" is a Curse

by Sharon Hoover 10/15/2008 10:26:00 AM

Just today in a session with one of my financial planner/investment advisor coaching clients, she talked about the "curse" of responsibility.  You may have some notion of what she meant.  I sure did.  Most of us grew up being taught that being responsible was a good and noble thing, something we should develop and endeavor to use.  In fact, I daresay that people in the financial services industry come with a pretty large dose of it. 

Just as with every positive quality we have though, when taken to extreme, it's a liability.  In the face of our current market situation, it is even more important to be able to discern the difference between what you are responsible for and what is not in your domain.  You are responsible for how you communicate with your clients, the expertise you bring about this current economic situation and your investment philosophy.  You are not responsible for their losses.  You are responsible for keeping up with the situation and responding creatively.  You are not responsible for their stress about it.

When you can differentiate what you can control or influence from what you cannot, then you can invest your energy and your time where it will truly make a difference.  The rest is out of your hands.

 

 

 

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Sharon Hoover’s blog provides practical ways for advisors to transform their leadership skills. By focusing on how you can create a culture of empowerment, respect and integrity in your firm and with your clients, you connect with your passion for work and life. As a coach to leading financial advisors, Sharon is an expert on how you can manage your firm better and create balance in your life.

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Sharon HooverSharon A. Hoover, PCC, M.A.
Owner of CoachingWorks

Since 1996, Sharon has coached financial advisors and other small business owners. She combines her own insightful techniques with concepts of the most current thinkers in the field of leadership. Sharon is a graduate of Coach University and has been certified by the International Coach Federation since 1998. She coaches advisors coast-to-coast and facilitates inspirational and productive staff retreats that lead to transformational shifts. Sharon has presented for the Financial Planning Association’s local chapter and Retreat, as well as the Knoxville Estate Planners Association.

Sharon knows leadership from the inside out. In 1985, she established the local center for an international nonprofit foundation that focuses on personal development, chaired the local board and served in international roles. She is a founding member of the East Tennessee Coaches Association and served in formal and informal leadership since its inception in 2001. She chairs the Small Business Committee for the Knoxville Chamber and the Board of the Race Relations Center of East Tennessee. Sharon is also an active member of the Rotary Club of Knoxville. She lives on a farm with her husband, John, a psychologist, whom she married in 1962. They have two adult daughters, Karin and Elizabeth.

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